2. Results
The overriding research objective for this study was to investigate the forms of oppressive masculinity that exist among immigrants of African descent in Canada and its relationships with GBV. It also investigates the perspectives of service providers working in immigrant service organizations on the role of masculinities in addressing GBV amongst African immigrant populations. The participants were immigrants of African descent who may have transitioned to being Canadian citizens, asylum seekers, permanent residents, international students, and open work permit holders.
This study included a total of n=33 participants with 39.3% (n=13) being female immigrants of African descent while 60.7% (n=20) were service providers. The participants were of an age range of 21-61 years with over 40% being of the age category of 41-50 years. About 42.1% had lived in Canada for <10 years and were either permanent residents or on open work permits. A majority of the participants were from Alberta (35.6%), Ontario (25.2%), and Manitoba (15.8%). About 82.4% had tertiary level of education.
The service providers are the representatives of organizations responsible for addressing, preventing, and mitigating the effects of GBV on individuals and communities. Service providers are presented as (SP) while service users are (SU). The identified themes and subthemes centered on participants' experiences of GBV as well as the need to disrupt oppressive masculinities and to address violence against women in African immigrant communities in Canada. Analysis of the interviews generated theme to illustrate the experiences with hegemonic masculinity and GBV among African women immigrants in Canada. The emerging themes include – divergent ways of conceptualization of masculinity; intersections of transnationalism, culture and GVB; Systemic facilitators of toxic masculinity; and gaps in existing services and need for culturally relevant support services. Each of these themes are discussed and are accompanied by the relevant sub-themes as outlined below:
The participant's conceptualization of masculinity was shaped significantly by their cultural and sociological perceptions. Even though the participants were immigrants from various African countries, they provided similar descriptions of masculinity, each response revealing individually learned and internalised social norms.
Masculinity is the qualities or traits that are perceived as characteristic of men or boys in a society (SP_005; SU_002).
Masculinity is the behaviours that are expressed or displayed by men (SP_006).
Masculinity has to do with physical traits, and also gender norms surrounding what it means to be a man (SP_004; SP_001; SU_006).
Some of the respondents explicitly described masculinity as a set of roles that men perform and the behaviours they display.
“Masculinity is what they [men] do with their behaviour” (SP_006).
“Masculinity means protection, provision, and providing leadership. But physically, it would probably mean someone who’s larger, or someone who is aggressive [Laughs], unfortunately” (SP, 004).
Similarly, SU_004 argued that masculinity means,
Being a man means that you’re a protector, you're a provider. You know, a man is the one who is supposed to cover his family and protect his family. A man is the head of the house. A man is the epitome of strength and everything that we are supposed to think of, like an umbrella that covers every bit of his family (SU_004).
Subtheme 1: Hegemonic Masculinity
One of the overriding perspectives from the conversations amongst the participants about the description of masculinity is the dichotomy between contemporary or modern masculinity (which is more prevalent in Canada –their destination country) and hegemonic or toxic masculinity (as obtained in their home country). Some participants recognized that the conceptualization and manifestation of masculinity have evolved over the years, reflecting changes in gender, cultural, and social dynamics. Some recurring traits of traditional masculinity as revealed by the participant include toughness and strength, conformity to gender norms, control, dominance, protection, and provision. Here are some of the excerpts describing masculinity:
Oppressive masculinity is domination, wherein in a relationship the man has most or all the power, whether it’s physical, economic, or even emotional. Oppressive masculinity is power and control (SP_008).
I got married at a very, very young age. That was 21 years…And the community that I got married to doesn't believe that a woman has any say. A woman cannot contribute to any conversation, and cannot give any decision. A woman is not supposed even to work (SU_001).
Men do things when they want to do them, but we [women] can’t do things when we want to do them. We see that the men also have control over the women's money. When you [a woman] gets her salary, she takes the money to your husband first. He takes whatever part he wants to take out of it, and then he gives you what he wants to give to you. A woman works hard to make that money, but her spouse has control over it (SP_007).
Talking about masculinity, [it means] you are a man, you are the head of the home. You are the finance minister. You are the one working and bringing the money. You are the one taking care of all the responsibilities, feeding the home, taking care of the wife and children. So, from my perspective, being a man in a house, or being a man in the family, like you are the head. You are the king. You are the breadwinner and such, which is something different from what I have seen here [in Canada] (SP_006).
Younger men and boys are groomed quite early in life to internalize stereotypical emotions and adhere to traditional masculine gender norms. Crying, shame, pain, anger, fear, emotions, beliefs, and behaviours are often attached to gender roles.
Culture dictates that the man should not be like a crybaby and that you have to be strong and not express your emotions, … (SU_010).
I’ve learned from society that masculinity stands for strength, and in my culture, they say men don't cry. Men are known to suppress their emotions. When you are a man you must not cry, you must not act like a woman, and you must not be weak. You must be strong (SP_008).
Subtheme 2: Contemporary/Modern Masculinity
The study participants argued that the meaning of masculinity fluctuates between negative and positive connotations. In contemporary times, masculinity has experienced some significant shifts that challenge traditional male stereotypes. Modern masculinity evolved in response to changes in culture and society and would continue to evolve. Modern masculinity involves inclusivity and diversion, nurturing and caring, authenticity and self-expression, emotional intelligence, challenging traditional stereotypes and gender equality, and changing traditional gender roles.
…you keep on hearing the “societal narratives,” that men are supposed to be protectors, providers, and covering and all of that stuff, but when you look at the reality of it all, that’s not how it is (SU_004).
Subtheme 3: Masculinity as a construction
Underpinning participants’ descriptions of masculinities was the idea of masculinity as something constructed and shaped by both internal and external forces. Participants discussed how aspects of masculinity had changed over time, how masculinity did not necessarily have to be specific to men, how the masculine could also be subordinated, and most importantly, that the performance of masculinity was shaped by socialization. In connecting these, they highlighted the influence of societal expectation and cultural norms in the construction of masculinity, and how these consequently shape expressions of gender. Among those, recognizing the dynamic nature of masculinity was an openness to alternative forms of masculinity.
Coming from an African background, masculinity is something that we see every day from our fathers to our brothers, to relatives. For me, in my own words I will define masculinity as the power that men have over us, and I say power because it’s kind of – because of my African background, it comes across like every woman is supposed to be under the man. So we – we do not have a name unless it is tied to that of a man. So I see – I see masculinity as the power over the female gender, in my own words. SP007
Yeah. And other – other communities, they feel like the woman is supposed to be like – like the one submissive, and the husband should be the one who is more like controlling and letting – and like directing the family and the woman has no say. So that could lead to a man being more – more like stronger and that is why when they get married, he will behave the same, bring that character in the home. SU010
Cultural beliefs such as perceptions about hegemonic masculinity are endured, perpetrated, and facilitated transnationally as people migrate from one place to another. Analysis of the interview transcripts with the participants reveal that culture and cultural practices spread beyond national borders. As such, culturally established hegemonic views are not limited to the immigrants' nation-states but are carried from the immigrant's home country to the destination country.
When people come here [Canada], they don’t forget, some wouldn’t forget their culture. So, whatever they had from the original country comes here with them, and they want to continue what they know has always been the practice in their home country (SU_009).
Culture is so strong that culture, we [Africans] are cultural. We migrate from our different African, and Sub-Saharan African countries; we do not leave our cultures behind. We come with our culture, we come with our norms, understanding, and ways of doing things. (SU_006).
I don’t think Africans who immigrated here changed the same day, no. They still have that mentality [masculine hegemony]. Yeah, even here in Canada, immigrants from Africa, still do those things I have been saying [masculine hegemonic norms] (SU_011).
Subtheme 1: Cultural Dissonance and family tension are common in migration
Migration demands cultural adjustments and adaptation to social norms and practices different from previous experiences. Hence the hegemonic norms imbibed by both immigrant men and women, experience sharp contrast and they are compelled by the events in the destination country to change, evolve, and become more flexible. This is usually not an easy process and in some cases, it sets the tone for disagreements between intimate partners and consequently becomes full-blown violence. Participants alluded to the fact there are required shifts on the preconceived gender roles.
Here I have seen a man washing dishes, which is very rare in Africa. Where I came from, for a man to wash a dish in the kitchen, cook, or go to the market and buy groceries, is not too common in Africa. It’s not too common except because of Western civilization that’s infusing into our culture (SP_006).
Coming from an African culture, you see more of be the protector, be the provider, but in Canada, interacting with men who have moved to Canada or maybe North America for a little bit longer, I see a shift in what that looks like. So lately I’ve been interacting with people, especially younger men, and I see more of that change in masculinity in terms of like. With feminism and all these things, there’s this push towards men saying "I don't have to be the sole provider" (SP_004).
The process of adapting to the values, customs and norms of new cultures does not only yield positive changes in gender roles but also causes tension within families.
When people come here [Canada] they don’t forget their culture. So, whatever they had from the original country comes here with them, and they want to continue what they know has always been the practice in their home country. And that sometimes is a conflict here because people here expect now to follow the laws of the country instead of what somebody's culture is saying. So that can bring issues within families (SU_009).
When they [women] come this way [Canada], gender equality now becomes difficult, and when the woman now realizes the aspect of that equality and wants to get that equality, the man becomes tough and difficult, to give that position to the wife. Maybe at times unconsciously or consciously (SP_009)
Some participants asserted that exposure to different cultural values and norms could lead to conflicts for various reasons. These issues range from their diverse levels of attachments to their original culture versus the ones being adopted in their new country of residence, to financial strains, to social isolation, to loss of support networks, and then to cultural adjustments to new gender roles.
Subtheme 2: Manifestations of oppressive masculinity and gender-based violence
Further exploration of the relationship between oppressive masculinity and gender-based violence revealed specific impacts on those who are victimized. Participants provided concrete examples and narratives that illustrated the wide-ranging effects of oppressive masculinity and gender-based violence, oftentimes within the household setting. The harms were typically perpetrated towards women, resulting in diminished voice and agency, emotional and psychological abuse, financial abuse, physical abuse and loss of life, sexual abuse, and social control and isolation from others. While gender-based violence is typically perpetuated against women, both service providers and community members noted that men were also sometimes victims as well. Moreover, children in the affected households were also impacted in instances of oppressive masculinity. Participants mentioned experiences with the child welfare systems as well as the limited academic performance for children that find themselves in situations of these kinds.
And, you know, in most of the cases, when somebody is in control of you, he will even like make you have no friends, yeah? Like he sends messages to any friend that you meet, and he’s able to disconnect those friendships. You get a job, he’s able to make you leave that job, because of the level of seniority that one feels, you know? You feel that you can’t control your, you know? I don’t know what I can put it, that you have control even what I as a person, or him as a person is the only God who has control over. Yeah. (SU001).
People come here and they lose their safety nets, and so those roles of gender, which are meant to serve and protect, are turned and are being used as measures of control. And so as our expression as men change, our expression through that changes, but if we haven’t gotten past that self-expression, we use the same – the same forms of control. SP001
Subtheme 3: Impacts of oppressive masculinity and gender-based violence
The consequences resulting from incidences of oppressive masculinity and gender-based violence were significant, impacting individuals, families, and communities. Participants shared that gender-based violence often led to encounters with the legal system (i.e., police and courts), resulted in family dissolution, and was overall detrimental to children’s wellbeing. It was revealed that survivors, perpetrators, experienced adverse effects and others close to them as well, thus emphasizing the pervasive nature of gender-based violence. Such effects were associated with long-term repercussions especially in children who would often depict their experiences with violence later on in life either because of embodied lived experiences and/or reduced capacity to achieve their maximum potential in life.
Yeah, this impacts our communities in a very negative way. You find that children are affected mentally, emotionally, and the person who is …like if it’s the man or the woman, whoever that is taking control, the other party will be so oppressed they feel emotionally drained, and I think it affects their entire life, like functioning. One will not function well, and the kids will even end up into drugs, and doing such things, and they will not even be able to maybe concentrate well at school, and even the other partner might not even progress and it really affects their lives. SU010
As demonstrated above, pre and post migration experiences of masculinity are closely linked to GBV and some structural factors in migration facilitate such experiences. For instance, migration policies that are cauterize people as being dependants of a main applicant (who in most cases tend to be men), predispose marginalized individuals – such as women and children to increased risk of toxic masculinity and GBV. As witnessed in previous studies [
5,
10,
11,
15], oppressive masculinity occurs in Canada. Various reasons exist for the continuous manifestations of negative masculinity and GBV and the current study reveals the experiences of African immigrants in Canada.
Both community members and service providers highlighted the role of prevailing systemic challenges in creating a suitable ground for violence to thrive. For most immigrants, migration comes with loss of social and economic status as immigrants leave behind their well established social and economic networks. Additionally, the immigration status also determines the experiences with violence and whether a victim would seek the necessary and available support. Individuals whose immigration status are dependent on their spouses who in certain instances are the perpetrators of violence are unable to seek the necessary support due to fear of deportation. According to participant narratives, some African immigrant women have lost their lives in such scenarios.
Subtheme 1: Vulnerability in the immigration process and concerns about immigration Status
African immigrant women in precarious immigration circumstances or who are financially dependent on their spouses face structural barriers; for many in this situation, to leave their relationship equates to a loss of what is familiar—a “comfort zone”—and some aspects of security. As such, victims, who are primarily women, feeling a lack of support, often feel they have to suffer in silence, further contributing to the normalization of gender-based violence. Additionally, the lack of knowledge about the law and their rights in the new country, concerns about their immigration status, and fear of deportation create barriers to seeking services and legal recourse against GBV.
Some of the men here in Canada, decide to go back to their countries of origin to go and look for wives, and their wives are perhaps ten years younger than them, sometimes 15 years younger than them. Most of these young females are looking for a better life and would willingly leave their countries of origin to come to Canada. Once here, the expectations of the husband are sometimes that, “You do as I say. For a while, some of the clients - women that I was getting were worried about being deported because they were saying that the husbands would use the two-year rule, an exception rule that was there in Immigration, that used to say that, if you get married, and it's an immigration marriage and you bring your wife or spouse here, you've got two years to dissolve the marriage, and that person can return to their country of origin (SU_004).
Service providers in particular highlighted issues with meeting resistance from men to changing the status quo or not having the right language when trying to address these issues within African immigrant communities. Lastly, both community members and service providers shared that due to the patriarchal nature of most African immigrant cultures, attempts to promote more gender-equitable dynamics are often perceived as a Western influence and a betrayal to one’s culture.
Subtheme 2: Lack of Social Connection and economic independence
Lack of social connections is often one of the reasons why female immigrants who are survivors of GBV would not speak up. This is an excerpt from the conversation with a service provider:
...In these types of relationships, the female is usually less educated. Understandably, I mean, if I’m dependent on my husband’s income, and I am in a country that is strange to me, I hardly know anybody, and I cannot speak the language, what will I do on my own? So this is very challenging. Most of these situations are like that, that the women have zero social connections here. They do not have any family. They are brought, they don’t understand the system. Oftentimes they’re either pregnant or, you know, having children already, so those are complicated situations that are very challenging (SP_005).
Subtheme3: Differing gender equaty laws in destination country
The role of the law in protecting women's rights and amplifying their voices often can make men feel intimidated. Sometimes, to reinforce their position as the lord of their home they resort to the domination and oppression of their wives. See the excerpt below:
Here the laws allow women more of a voice, it makes some of the men feel intimidated, so they even hang on more tightly to their power (SP_008).
Subtheme 4: African societal norms on family privacy and culture of silence
In most African societies, there is a strong emphasis on family stability and unity. Thus, separation or divorce is stigmatized, making it difficult for women to leave abusive relationships without facing social ostracism. Participants expressed concerns about women not speaking up and reporting their experiences of GBV due to internalised beliefs about their responsibility as African women to maintain their family harmony. They would choose to achieve this by enduring GBV in silence.
We don’t want to be looked at as the bad person, and we don’t want to put our family names out there. So we would rather just suppress everything inside and not even say anything at all. Your parents or your family members have told you, “Don’t bring shame to us. Whatever happens, stay in that marriage. Stay in that relationship (SP_007).
I wish that would were more women who would be able to articulate how they feel more, but if they do that they are ostracized (SP_008)
Still, in tandem with the above, there is a culture of silence. Women are often not comfortable when their private affairs are being gossiped about. They feel exposed and betrayed when they speak in confidence about their struggles and their private affairs become a subject of public discussion. The excerpt below provides insight into this:
Africans love their lives private, so making it [GBV] public doesn’t encourage them at all to step forward [speak up] (SU_010).
I know one lady, who used to come and tell us what the husband was doing to her. She would say she did not even sleep at home because her husband wanted to beat her up. They started talking about her, not in a bad way but they are like, ‘Oh, my goodness, she’s gone through a lot. This guy’s not good, ” and that made her not share anything again (SU_010).
In those societies [African immigrant societies], people do not want to talk about this [GBV] at all, because it will bring shame [to them] (SP_009).
Because of stigma, she [the victims] decided not to talk about it. So that's one big issue because they will say that you are airing your dirty laundry (SP_008).
Sometimes we hear that someone is going through something. But they don’t want anyone to get involved because they don’t want their names out there, or their family names out there (SP_007).
We see cases of women who for one reason or the other, would cheat on their husbands. Then maybe go to the man and say, "Oh, I did this, and I'm sorry. It was a mistake." Now this could result in GBV, and then when asked, the woman may be so ashamed of what she has done, that she will not be able to speak out because she doesn't want the society to condemn her (SP_007).
Both community members and service providers emphasized the need to address oppressive masculinities and gender-based violence in African immigrant communities. Proposed solutions were primarily community-based and highlighted a need to engage with men in varying capacities. However, participants also acknowledged the significant barriers to identifying and addressing oppressive masculinity and gender-based violence given the sensitivity and the personal nature of societal challenges.
Subtheme 1: Intentional engagement of men, women, and children in support services
In reference to current support for those impacted by gender-based violence, participants shared that existing services were very fragmented. It was also acknowledged that there were few services specifically addressing gender-based violence, meanwhile women-only supports heavily outnumbered those for men or immigrants. In that regard, participants offered a number of policy and service considerations for future programming to support those affected by gender-based violence.
Both community members and service providers emphasized the need to address oppressive masculinities and gender-based violence in African immigrant communities. Proposed solutions were primarily community-minded and highlighted a need to engage with men in varying capacities. A majority of the support services were criticized for being female focused and with limited interest to uphold the values, norms, and practices of the African immigrants. However, participants also acknowledged the significant barriers to identifying and addressing oppressive masculinity and gender-based violence given the sensitivity and the personal nature of societal challenge. Children were acknowledged as potential conduits for addressing oppressive masculinity. This is not to say that children should take on the role of resolving disagreements in their families but rather being players in relation to providing contemporary perspectives on the different forms of masculinity. As stated by one of the participants born in a family of three girls who had migrated to Canada as an early teenager, the three girls played a key role in grounding their father in Canada by providing information and support. The participant talked about how their father is now playing a key role in mentoring newcomer men to adapt to Canadian culture and society.
Well, yeah, we ran that program for two years and it was interesting where in the forum you have a grown man standing up to ask questions about some of these things and you would begin to appreciate the fact that it’s really that they don’t know. It is not like they want to. It’s really that is the only way they have known life to be before and it was normal than just saying that they are being mean, or they are being wicked, or they don’t understand. Like those questions that most of these men asked floored me and it made me reconsider looking into the cultures more before we begin to criticize some of these behaviours. SP002
Subtheme 2: Decreasing oppressive masculinity and incidence of gender-based violence
In discussing ways to address oppressive masculinity and gender-based violence, community members and service providers shared sentiments on potential approaches that would serve the community. Suggestions were very people-centric and revolved around offering various types of support, information sharing, or relationship building. These included peer support and mentorships, role modeling, and seeking therapy or counseling as needed. These suggestions were often provided for promoting masculinity that is more positive.
Community members emphasized the need for equal opportunities for men and women on a broader social scale while service providers stressed the importance of providing information in the community. Suggested education included sharing information about resettlement and transitioning into Canadian society, cultural shift and demystification of psychotherapy, personal rights, masculinity in healthy relationships, gender-based violence, consequences of violence, and available support for those affected by violence. Participants also believed that it was important to meet people where they were and for oppressive masculinity and gender-based violence to be talked about more openly in the community and in gathering places such as in religious spaces. Limited skills and expertise among religious and community leaders to handle issues of oppressive masculinity in the context of Canada were identified as a major barrier. Even though most African immigrants prefer to receive support from their community and religious leaders, these individuals are engaged in multiple shift work which limits their ability to have adequate time to support their community members.
Mm. I think counseling is a good start, but I’m also aware that in our culture it’s not a very popular option, because people don’t want to talk to strangers about, you know, their lives. But I think if we have a tighter community coalition, and I noticed that a lot of the groups are mostly women. We don’t really – I’m not aware of like family-oriented organization that will bring the men in. You know, so even if there are discussions about gender-based violence, the men could also be present, you know, and I feel like that would be like a form of education for them. But it’s always women meeting to talk about what is happening. SP008
I was thinking, even that gentleman I was giving an example of, that I’m saying the unicorn, of approaching him one day and kind of just saying, “Let’s create a course together, or a workshop together, and you lead it, because you’re a man. You look at the world a little bit differently. You might be able to teach some of these kids and these people different things that might be helpful, in teaching them how to be better human beings, you know.” SU004