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12 August 2023
Posted:
15 August 2023
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Abstract
Keywords:
1. Introduction
2. Materials and Methods
2.1. Study Participants
2.2. Data Collection
2.3. Ethical Considerations
2.4. Procedures
2.4.1. Socio-demographic
2.4.2. Life Review Questions
2.4.3. Procedure to Record the Interview
2.5. Data Analysis
2.6. Rigor
3. Results
3.1. Descriptive Characteristics
3.2. Thematic analysis results
3.2.1. The 1st Theme: Childhood Memories
“Yes, I miss it. It has my memories”[F2, line 44]
“Who does not miss their childhood, any person when they are alone, they relive their memories.”[M3, line 32]
“Yeah, but they demolished it”[F4, line 22]
“Yes, I miss it and long for it, but I cannot return to it because of my husband’s illness”[F3, lines 32&34]
“Actually, after I built my new house, I cannot go back to live in that house because no one lives there anymore. My father passed away, and my mother lives at my sister's house.”[M1, line 36]
“A house made of cement. I do not really miss it because it is a small house and so on. I only miss the gatherings in it.”[F8, line 21]
“No, I do not miss it. Do you know why? You know, in the past, it was a mud house, and our area was cold at the green mountain, a very cold area”[F9, lines 44&46]
“Holidays (Al-Fitr and Al-Adha), and Birthdays”[F3, line 41]
“As for the holidays, we perform the Eid prayer and then greet people at the mosque, after which we greet family and relatives. The rituals of Eid al-Adha start on the ninth day, in which we slaughter livestock, and on the morning of Eid, we cook the traditional meal (Alarsaih), and on the second day of Eid, we slaughter the livestock and cook skewers and grilled meat.” [M2, lines 44-47]
“No, there were no jobs before, only household work”[F4, line 15]
“We used to do household work, watering, and chopping firewood”[F2, line 26]
“I did not work. I did household work”[F7, line 12]
“First, I worked at a bank. Then I worked as a librarian in Thumrait, then at the Ministry of Health as a librarian, then at the Royal Hospital.”[F8, lines 14-15]
“I used to work as a correspondent at Oman Development Bank”[M1, line 20]
“My job was a civil guard at the university”[M2, line 22]
“Director General in the Ministry of Education”[M3, line 13]
“I worked at Oman Air in the equipment department, specializing in aviation equipment.”[M4, line 8]
3.2.2. The 2nd Theme: Friendships and Relationships
“Yes, I have childhood friends, but now we do not communicate with each other because there were no phones before and also because we were busy and separated in different provinces as a result of marriage.”[F7, lines 33-34]
“My old friends, some dead and some are alive, and others moved far away, I do not know where. I still communicate with some of them until now through WhatsApp as these applications bring everyone closer.”[M4, lines 36-37]
“Those from my childhood days, I do not remember because most of them have passed away”[F2, line 68]
“Childhood friends, I do not remember them. As for friends from recent years, yes, we visit from time to time”[F3, line 46]
“Yes, it is important. It is true that it was tiring and there was no electricity, and we had to bring water from the well. But we endured and armed ourselves with knowledge and obtained a degree”[F1, line 87]
“I learned how to raise my children, right from wrong, how to talk, and how to take care of my health and deal with people. There is a difference between people who studied and those who did not study or have not completed their studies.”[F9, lines 107-108]
“Thanks to God, we studied and completed high school. We were not employed or went to college. I got married and returned to Oman. Thanks to God, my high school diploma helped me find a job, so I worked in banks, ministries, and companies.”[F8, lines 54-55]
“Its importance is me reaching where I am now. If it were not for education would not have reached it.”[M3, line 59]
“Very useful I read, write, recites the Qur’an, and manage my affairs”[M4, line 56]
“Yes, those years were of great importance in my life. It is true that I stopped after middle school, but that period is enough to teach us a lot. We learned the Qur'an and memorized and understood many aspects of life. Knowledge enlightens the person”[M2, lines 62-63]
“I remember teacher Karima who used to teach me Arabic”[F3, line 59]
“Yes, in Muscat, teacher Adel Al-Qadi. He was a principal at Al-Saidia School. I also remember Professor Tawfiq. May God rest his soul in peace, and Professor Ramsey, my teacher at Al Saidia School in Muscat.”[M3, lines 51-52]
“Yes, indeed, we have been through hardships. In the past, I did not have enough money to build a house for my family, and my wife wanted to move to a privet house….”[M2, lines 68-70]
“Yes, at the beginning of our marriage, we were young, and he was not even employed after we had our first child.”[F5, line 50]
“Yes, sure, he did not have anything. In Abu Dhabi salary was only 40 riyals. His mother and 2 brothers were living with us. Life was difficult before we came back from Zanzibar. My mother used to work as a baker, cooking Mandazi and selling it. My husband used to bring a truck from Dubai to Oman. It has vegetables, and that was his job, and we used to work and do everything.”[F4, lines 65-68]
“We fought a little bit about the issue of children. In the beginning, God blessed me with three daughters while he wanted a son”[F3, lines 70-71]
“Oh yes, we went through difficult times… and after God chose my husband, the circumstances became much more difficult for me because my responsibilities increased and my children were young.”[F6, lines 63-64]
“Thank God it is good, and when I am not at home for a couple of days, they say that the house is not great without you, and my husband does not know how to manage things without me.”[F1, line 99]
“I was kind to my husband, and after his death, I raised my children by myself, and I was patient throughout difficult circumstances.”[F2, line 96]
“I treated them well. They say that I sacrifice for the sake of others. I greeted everyone, and everyone asked about me.”[F3, line 80]
“I love being with my children, having them around me, and our gatherings together”[F3, line 84]
“Yes, I was excited about this. They are the light of the house; children are a blessing from the Lord. Educating them, trying to get them residential lands, and marrying them off. Ensuring their stability is the best responsibility for me.”[M1, lines 72 & 76]
“They made me happy and filled my life because I did not have anyone…”[F4, line 87]
3.3.3. The 3rd Theme: The Older Adults’ past
“No, despite the difficulty of life, and we when to collect firewood, irrigate, and reside in tents, the past was good, and I do not want to change anything from it.”[F2, line 131]
“No, I do not wish for it to return, life in the past was poverty and misery, and no one wishes for it to return. As for now, we live in prosperity and abundant provision, thanks God.”[M2, line 94]
"To learn and teach my children to save up” [F5, line 76], “If I were to go back in time, I would wish the mother of my children would stay by my side, but it is God's command.”[M1, line 92]
“I wish time would come back"[M4, line 90]
“A long time ago, we did not wear headscarves, and we worked with men. When I remember this, I think about why we did this, and I regret it. May our Lord forgive us”[F8, lines 106-107]
“The death of my father and mother. They are irreplaceable as they had imprints on my upbringing.”[M3, line 98]
“My father’s death. I was eight months pregnant. He went on vacation while I was pregnant. He called me, and I told him that we missed him. He jokingly said that he would come back if I had a girl. Three days later, the news came that my father had passed away.”[F8, lines 111-112]
“When my children, Al-Khattab, died in an accident in 2008, then Qusay.”[F4, line 115]
“Sadness is inevitable in life, such as the death of relatives.”[M1, line 98]
“I learned to respect people, respect my husband, love my children, and do everything that pleases God.”[F1, line 155]
“Live your life with joy and be patient in difficult circumstances. Do not despair, as patience is the key to relief”[F3, lines 95]
“I learned from this life patience through hardships, respect for others, and self-confidence.”[M2, line 98]
“Life has taught me patience, humility, and contentment. And that I do not look at others, but I say may God bless me like them.”[F6, line 85]
“We lived a difficult life, which taught us patience and strives"[M4, line 96]
4. Discussion
5. Conclusions
Author Contributions
Funding
Institutional Review Board Statement
Informed Consent Statement
Data Availability Statement
Acknowledgments
Conflicts of Interest
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| Measure | n | % | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Age | 60-69 | 8 | 61.54 |
| 70-79 | 5 | 38.46 | |
| Gender | Female | 9 | 69.23 |
| Male | 4 | 30.77 | |
| Marital Status | Married | 7 | 53.85 |
| Widowed | 5 | 38.46 | |
| Divorced | 1 | 7.69 | |
| Live with | Live alone | 1 | 7.69 |
| Live with family | 12 | 92.31 | |
| Education | Illiterate | 4 | 30.77 |
| Primary | 4 | 30.77 | |
| Middle school | 3 | 23.08 | |
| High-school | 1 | 7.69 | |
| Higher Education | 1 | 7.69 | |
| Occupation | Retired | 6 | 46.15 |
| Housekeeping | 6 | 46.15 | |
| Unemployed | 1 | 7.7 | |
| Income | Without | 6 | 46.15 |
| With | 7 | 53.85 | |
| Medical problems | Hypertension | 7 | 53 85 |
| Diabetes | 9 | 69.23 | |
| Cholesterol | 5 | 38.46 |
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